- Feeling of Being Inlove

Aug 3, '07 7:34 AM
for everyone

Sometimes we fall in love and it feels so great--
So great that we never want to fall out of it...
But sometimes, though we hate to admit, We have
to fall out of it.. And falling out of love is
such a great decision to make... Actually, it's
one decision that can haunt us forever.. Falling
out of love doesn't just mean that we don't love
the person anymore.. It means more than that..
It means not wanting the person whom you have
thought to be a part of you-- To be a part of
your today and tomorrow. It might also mean that
you don't want to care for the person anymore Or
rather, that you have grown tired Of waiting for
that person to come back to you... And that it's
that waiting that made you fall out of love.. It
might also mean that you can't have what you
want, And that you are no longer wanted by the
other person.. Now that would hurt a lot, but if
that is the case, Then maybe, falling out of
love is the right choice. But how can a love as
sweet as mine be so wrong? How and why would I
want to fall out of love from someone I truly
care for? Why would I want to start my life all
over again When I can just pick up the pieces
and go from there? But most of all, why would I
want to teach my heart not to love someone Whom
I have known in my heart, as the one person that
I will love forever. These questions and so much
more can be answered by a single word.. And that
word is "LOVE".. Though we don't want to admit
it to ourselves, love has two sides.. Falling in
love and falling out of love.. It has two faces
and we tend to forget the one that hurts.. And
maybe, this is what I, myself have forgotten.
Maybe I have forgotten, that when I let myself
fall in love, I also let myself vulnerable to
feel the pain of falling out. This is this risk
that I have to accept... If I want to
experience "LOVE" And it is this "LOVE" that has
led me to where I am today. Maybe it is not all
love that will keep us in a relationship.. Maybe
there's more to it than love.. Maybe
relationships need more ingredients other than
love.. Maybe if patience, loyalty, trust,
respect, honesty, and communication are added
Then maybe, the relationship will be better. But
what happens when we all know these and more Yet
we still do fall out of love.. What is next? Do
we fall out of love like a lightning? Do we fall
out of love as if we got burned? No--we don't...
For falling out of love takes so much of who we
are.. It takes away our strength and our heart.
Falling out of love is like trying to stop
something that we are fond of doing, Or trying
to stop what we like so much... It can also mess
up with our minds... 'Coz when we fall out of
love, we try to be so analytical if why it has
to end. So now I ask, if falling out of love is
so hard to do, Then why do we still have to fall
in love in the first place?????????